We're preparing to head south with mixed emotions. It's been wonderful to spend time with family. And, we wish we had time to see more friends. It would be easy to extend our stay through the holidays. (Except for that whole "single digits" and "snow" thing.) Our nieces have been encouraging us to stick around, or come back for the holidays. As much as we would love to do that, we really can't.
We need to get back to our real life.
Back in the days when we flew into Kansas City every year for a week or so to enjoy a holiday or two, it was never a question of when, or if, we would depart. The end date of each visit was set when we purchased the tickets for our flight. After a warm and wonderful stay, we'd sadly say goodbye to family and friends. But, we had to get back. After all, we had a house and a couple of jobs waiting for us.
What we realize now was there was one more thing we always came home to: Our real life. Beyond the house and the jobs was the everyday life we lived -- friends, fun and just kickin' back with the cats. As much as we enjoyed each stay in Kansas City, our real life was nearly 2,000 miles away. And, it was always good to get back.
These days, we don't have a stick and brick house or a couple of jobs waiting for us. Technically, we don't have to be anywhere. So, it's easy to see how some of the folks in our family don't understand why we feel compelled to leave tomorrow.
"You've already been to Texas," said a niece we love dearly who wishes so much we would stay. "Why do you have to go back?"
That's right! We had a "good reason" to head to Texas after the holidays last year. Actually, we had three: We'd yet to visit the Lone Star State; We had to get down there and establish residency; And, most importantly, we had to get warm.
This year, it's different. We don't have to do anything. Or, so it seems.
Actually, we do. We have to get back to our real life. After a month of sitting in our old hometown, we need to get back to exploring our beautiful country, meeting new people, visiting family and friends, meeting up with fellow fulltimers and having a whole lot of fun. We need to get back to just kickin' back with the cats. And, yes, we need to stay warm.
We miss it.
And, as soon as we're back to our real life, we'll miss our family and friends in Kansas City. Terribly. And, in the words of our ol' California governor, we'll be back.

