Four Years Later

Four years ago today we set off on our Great RV Escape. This is one of our favorite "anniversaries". It's a joy to recall the incredible sense of freedom we had on that day, remember everything it took to get there and celebrate all of the memories we've created since.

Of course, this is the first fulltiming anniversary that we're not celebrating in the moose. We'll meet up with him again tomorrow. Meanwhile, we're remembering this special day by reflecting on the lessons we learned on our life-changing journey. In hopes that these thoughts may inform or inspire folks who pass this way someday, we'll share a few of the things we're taking with us from our travels.

Lesson #1: Live Simply
If we take nothing else away from the last four years, this first lesson made it all worthwhile. For most of my adult life those two words were my perpetual New Year's resolution. Yet, every year life seemed to get more and more complicated. It took getting rid of most of our stuff, packing what was left in the moose and hitting the road for me to finally experience what I wanted for so long. Together, we learned the joy of living with just what we need. We kept things simple. And, we loved it. Our life of simplicity actually made room for us to enjoy so much more. Even though we're back in an "accumulation phase" for a bit as we furnish our house, this time it's different. We're finding just what we need and no more. We worked hard to finally simplify our lives. We're committed to keeping it that way.

Lesson #2: America Rocks
Living in the San Francisco Bay Area, where most residents think it is the center of the universe, it was easy to become just a bit jaded about our country. But, something happened shortly after we crossed the California state line into Oregon. We fell in love with America again. That love affair grew stronger over the next 35,000 miles. We live in an amazingly beautiful country. It's not just the purple mountains and shining seas that make it beautiful. The people we met along the way were warm, friendly and helpful. We have always been proud to be Americans. But, now we're in love, too!

Lesson #3: Age is Just a Number
As fulltime RVers go, we were definitely youngsters. It bothered us a bit at first. We found ourselves missing the company of our contemporaries. While most of our contemporaries continued slaving away at their careers, we had the pleasure of meeting and getting to know people of all ages. A few were younger, but most were older. We met folks in their 70s and 80s who were more active and energetic than we are. (And, we're pretty energetic!) Today, we have friends who are young enough to be our kids and friends who are the same chronological age as our parents. And, lots of friends are in between. What makes us friends is love, laughter, energetic spirit and a shared passion for exploring. Age isn't part of our criteria for friendship. It's just a number. (With each passing birthday, we need to remind ourselves of that!)

Lesson #4: Go Outside
When we hit the road four years ago today, our lives changed in so many ways. One of the most significant was that we began to live outside. Our pre-fulltiming life was lived predominately inside our offices, our cars and our home. We even worked out in an indoor gym! Time outside was limited to rare weekend hikes or bicycle outings. We knew it was good for us to get outside, but we rarely did. As fulltimers, the continent became our front yard. And, we loved it. When we get plenty of sunshine, fresh air and exercise, we feel terrific. When we don't, we need to remember to go outside!

Lesson #5: Never Stop Exploring
Paul and I love to explore. It's part of what we love about each other. That shared love was one of the most satisfying aspects of our fulltiming journey. Whether we were exploring a hiking trail, a National Park, a state Capitol, a new-to-us restaurant or a quirky shop, we were feeding our souls. During our first visit to beautiful Hilton Head Island, SC, Paul's dear Aunt Anne delighted in what we were up to. "Never stop exploring," she said. "Keep moving. Keep learning." Even though we're not moving around in a motorhome as much as we were, we'll keep finding the new in the every day. There's something extra special about making a new discovery in familiar territory. We think Aunt Anne would like that.

Who knew such a crazy idea as getting rid of your stuff and traveling the country in a fiberglass box would result in so much learning?

We're so very glad it did! And, even more glad we did it!