Time, Energy and Money

We thought this move would be simple.

Who were we foolin'?

It's been six weeks since we became land barons. By this time we were sure we'd be settled. Life would be normal, or close to it. The transition from living in a rolling home to a stick and brick house would be a distant memory.

After all, we only had so much stuff. All we had to do was a little shopping and we'd be all set. Right?

Wrong.

Truth is we're still in this transition. Knee deep. Turns out stocking a house, even a smallish one, from basically scratch takes time. A lot of it.

We're six weeks in and still have three rooms with no furniture. Not a stick. Actually, our living room has cardboard cutouts that represent pieces of furniture. Quite stylish! The good news there is I think we've landed on a layout that works. The next step is to buy the stuff. Then, we'll wait. Weeks.

Our rooms that have furniture are far from finished. We still need an area rug here and some bedding there and there. It all involves shopping. A lot of it. It's not our favorite thing to do. And, much of the time, it's not all that productive. I've been searching in vain for two small pieces of furniture to complete our most finished room. Once I find them, we'll start hanging artwork in there. Yes, our walls are bare. We have yet to unpack any of our art because we're not sure where we're putting it just yet. Plus, we have plans to frame yet-to-be-prints of some of our favorite photos from our travels. (Any project that starts with combing through tens of thousands of photos is going to take some time!)

We've made some mighty big moves in our past. Some were across town and one was across the country. Whatever the case, six weeks in we looked like we actually lived in the place. Here it looks like we're still waiting for the moving van to show up!

Of course, we have no deadlines on this project. That may be a blessing and a curse, actually. We have all the time in the world to get this done, which may be exactly why it's taking that long. With our first house guests expected in three weeks, I'm on a mission to properly outfit our guest bedroom and bath. Yesterday's shopping outing resulted in a shower curtain rod, hooks and a liner. Pretty exciting stuff, eh?

We're making progress. But, we are surprised at how much energy this never-ending project is taking. I'm always on the lookout for something. Because we pretty much need everything! Craigslist correspondence has become my latest obsession. Scouting for a bargain is fun, but when it becomes your job, it's an energy zapper. Paul has been focused on getting the lawn up and running. Of course, that meant buying and assembling a lawn mower, spreader, sprinklers, hoses and such. He wanted a lawn to take care, and he definitely got one. The house doesn't need much work at all. But, the yard is definitely in need of Paul's green thumb. Still, our "to-do" list is lengthy. And, it seems like the closer we get to checking things off the list, the longer it gets!

We knew this transition would cost us. And, we planned for it. But, the giant sucking sound of greenbacks leaving our bank account can be deafening. It'll be interesting to see how much we've spent after the dust settles. It'll be more than we thought it would be. Guaranteed.

The point of this ramble is that the transition from fulltiming to anytiming takes a lot of time, energy and money. And, while nobody will make the transition exactly as we are, our money (what we have left, anyway) is on the whole process being more complicated than imagined. Lots more.

We used to joke that one day we'd find a cute little house, park the moose, call Pottery Barn and have them deliver a house full of furniture. We found the house and stored the coach. But, that whole house full of furniture thing just isn't that simple.

We know there's a day in our future when we'll feel settled in both our homes. Then, we'll get to experience the best of both worlds. We can't wait.

Meanwhile, we'll keep hoping we have enough time, energy and money to get there.

Fingers crossed!